Mga Matitinong Aral Mula Kay Lord Kaiaphas (Na Inulit ni Byter)
August 28, 2008If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”.
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.”
You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…
even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man.
If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage…
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…
Look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.
Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes…
When a man always knows where you are, and you’re always readily available to him -
he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother’s house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)…
You’ll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
***Ipinoste ito ni Lord Kaiaphas sa chatbox ng convergenceforums.net, at inulit ko lang para mabasa at mapupulutan ng aral ng mga katambay na kung minsan ay natatanga at nabobo(a) sa pagmamahal. Parang ang lalim ng mensahe, as in Mariana’s Trench quality ang kalaliman pero ito ay isang katotohanan. Sana matututo na tayong lahat….amen!
***Ang Lord Kaiaphas na ito ay walang kinalaman at walang kaalam-alam sa Norwegian black metal band, baka yung blue metal band alam nya yun. Ang Lord Kaiaphas na tinutukoy dito ay ang nag-iisang Lord Kaiaphas sa tambayan ng convergence forums. Isa syang tambayero na mahilig sa computer at mga kung anu-anong laro.
Inspirational Quotes (Din Daw) 2
- Ang taong di marunong mag mahal sa sariling wika ay sa call center naglilipana.
- Aanhin mo pa ang damo kung mayroon namang shabu.
- Sa hinaba-haba ng prusisyon, sa traffic parin ang tuloy.
- Kapag may usok, kawawa ang may hika.
- When the cat is away, huwag mo nang hanapin malamang ginawa nang siopao yun.
- Laging nasa huli, ang late.
- Practice makes perfect but nobody’s perfect so why practice?
- Di baling pagsabihang tamad, di naman pagod.
- Don’t face your problem, if your problem is your face. Made-depress ka lang.
- Matalino man daw ang matsing, pangit parin.
