Mga Matitinong Aral Mula Kay Lord Kaiaphas (Na Inulit ni Byter)

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”.
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.”
You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior.
Change comes from within.

Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…
even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else’s man.
If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage…
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…

A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…
Look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.

Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes…
When a man always knows where you are, and you’re always readily available to him -
he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother’s house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other women and men (just so they know)…
You’ll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.

***Ipinoste ito ni Lord Kaiaphas sa chatbox ng convergenceforums.net, at inulit ko lang para mabasa at mapupulutan ng aral ng mga katambay na kung minsan ay natatanga at nabobo(a) sa pagmamahal.  Parang ang lalim ng mensahe, as in Mariana’s Trench quality ang kalaliman pero ito ay isang katotohanan.  Sana matututo na tayong lahat….amen!

***Ang Lord Kaiaphas na ito ay walang kinalaman at walang kaalam-alam sa Norwegian black metal  band, baka yung blue metal band alam nya yun.  Ang Lord Kaiaphas na tinutukoy dito ay ang nag-iisang Lord Kaiaphas sa tambayan ng convergence forums.  Isa syang tambayero na mahilig sa computer at mga kung anu-anong laro.

Inspirational Quotes (Din Daw) 2

1. Ang taong di marunong mag mahal sa sariling wika ay sa call center naglilipana.
2. Aanhin mo pa ang damo kung mayroon namang shabu.
3. Sa hinaba-haba ng prusisyon, sa traffic parin ang tuloy.
4. Kapag may usok, kawawa ang may hika.
5. When the cat is away, huwag mo nang hanapin malamang ginawa nang siopao yun.
6. Laging nasa huli, ang late.
7. Practice makes perfect but nobody’s perfect so why practice?
8. Di baling pagsabihang tamad, di naman pagod.
9. Don’t face your problem, if your problem is your face. Made-depress ka lang.
10. Matalino man daw ang matsing, pangit parin.

My Katambays Joins Cebu SEO Contest

Ang tagal kong nawala….bumalik na rin, bumalik na rin…..owwhhhh hoooohh hooohh (ala Gary V).  Pasensya na po mga katambay, at medyo matagal nawala sa circulation ang magandang lola nyo.  Busy kasi sa kung mga anong-anong chu-chu at chuva-chuva ang beautylicious lola Byter nyo, at lately medyo na-freeze ang coconut milking brains ng dakilang tambay.  That is due to some really crazy event happen to my extraordinary-ordinary life,  I’ve done some crazy things lately that I’ve never really imagine I would have the guts to do.  But well, I don’t regret it.  I’ll tell you about it later, but for now I’m going to talk about the SEO contest that some our katambay is joining.  It is the Cebu SEO Challenge by PHblogger dot Net.  

    At this broadcast time, nasa top 3 na ang girlash na katambay natin at karibal ko sa puso ni papa Wu Chun, ang Bloggy Blog on Cebu SEO Contest ni Aiza her blog http://anime.i.ph.  SEO beginner palang ang girlash na yan pero, humataw na.  Watch out kayo mga guys, she will make you eat dust, then let you burp and die.

    Well, let’s not forget Clawid he joined the Cebu SEO Contest as well. He’s blog, with a real blogger’s heart. He owned the College Student in Roxas City|Cebu SEO Contest his blog http://clawid.i.ph   

You go guys! Keep on bloggin’! 

Mga Tambay, Let us Support Busby SEO Challengers

Excuse me po! Makikiara-an muna… I just want to take this opportunity to announce my support to the Filipino who is currently playing in the Olympic Games 2008 in Beijing China. Ehem, aside from that I would like also to give me heartfelt support to the Filipinos who is putting their lives to the midst of the earth for the battle of their SEO career. Yup SEO career. SEO o search engine optimization refers to the practice wherein you are making your websites very visible online via search engine through some different tactics or techniques. There is a world cup competition like this that is happening and conducted by a company from Perth, Australia. The company is the Busby Web Solutions. The contest name is called Busby SEO Challenge. It is a competition that the prize at stake is about $7,500 all in all. It is a chance of a lifetime for every participating SEO because aside from the big cash that the entrant will gain from this competition, job opportunity will be very juicy with the winner later. Oh yes, it will be a great way of promoting the countries’ best SEO players thus inviting investors to come and make use of the skills of the country.

Now, Philippines is on the list of those who have a big chance to win the challenge. Here are those people who are participating and currently rising from the ashes and dust of war on the keyword Busby SEO Challenge:

1. Busby SEO Challenge by Felix.  From his bleuken.i.ph that he use to win PMT contest to his http://www.bleuken.com right now for the said competition. He registered this last June and it shows a great potential to the ladder. If in case you wish to support him, link his URL to your blog and use the keyword Busby SEO Challenge as the word for linking;
2. Busby SEO Challenge by Ed Pudol. http://www.bayaw.com, this is his URL. From the name itself of its web address you can determine already that the participant is a real Filipino.
3. Busby SEO Challenge by Mito. His fight for the position on top 10 was very tough and despite falling from time to time he still shows big hope. Waving the flag in the Philippines his http://www.pontillas.com deserves to be supported also.

I advice kaberks to give them a little link love on your blogs showing your support for them. This will give both honor to us Filipinos but also honor to our country. By the way the contest will end this August 31 already so immediate support is badly needed. Aside from this Filipinos also participating the kabonfootprint SEO contest which only started last August 1 but this Busby Challenge is the first priority for now so wish them luck and I hope you give them what they deserve. Thank you.

This post is a guest post made by bleuken with the permission of byter.